Your Relationships Reflect YOU

Don’t fix your relationships, fix how YOU relate to OTHERS

Of course(!) we would eventually talk about relationships on The Identity Factor. After all, relationships are one of the most important things in our life, if not THE most important thing. We’re social animals, and nothing is more important than our family, friends or our significant others.

But I do want to say this: if you’re asking whether or not you’re with the right person, then you might be asking the wrong question. Believe me, I get it. I know why people ask that question, but I want to challenge you to think about it in a different way. 

Be the right person and then you’ll be with the right person.

Look, this podcast is about you. I made The Identity Factor because I want to share the knowledge I’ve gained from successfully helping clients from all around the world. And if you’re here, then it’s because you’re already looking for that thing that’s going to help you be a better you. So let’s ask the real questions that matter.

And whether that’s to be a better husband, wife, or business owner, you want to know how TO BE the person YOU need TO BE to achieve the goals you deserve. 

When it comes to relationships, it’s easy to focus on other people. But if you want your relationships to work, then it’s time to focus on the one person you control--YOU.

That’s what this episode is about. It’s about you. And making you the person who can make relationships work. 

Don’t fix your relationships, fix how YOU relate to OTHERS. 

What we’ll talk about in this episode

How to identify the triggers that get to you in your relationships. Where they come, what they mean, and even better--how to get rid of them. 

Does a certain type of behavior really mean you’re being judgmental?

How to tell the difference between perception versus reality in your relationships. Learn how to control your perception to control your behavior.

Stop letting people live inside your head rent-free. By letting people get to you, you’re giving them ownership over you, and it’s keeping you from being happy.

Make it stop. 

False expectations of a fairytale reality could be ruining the real relationships in your life. Learn how to approach relationship expectations from a more mature and balanced perspective.

You learned how to relate to people as a child...and then pretty much stopped learning how to handle relationships. Don’t worry, so did everybody else. But now you’re ready to handle emotional relationships like an adult.

Communication, communication, communication--the three most important things to good relationships and a better you in all of your relationships.


I’m Dying to Know...

How’s that technique working? The one I taught you last week? Don’t know what I’m talking about? Click here for Episode 4, How to Modify Your Habits and find out!

Remember, to practice this technique with an open mind for for at least two weeks...I’d love to hear how it’s working at [email protected]


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